Elle Chase talks about her book, Curvy Girl Sex, how the media is changing its portrayal of fat people, the relevance of the word “plus size,” and her personal experiences with her own body. Never apologize for your body You might have grown up in a plus-size body, or perhaps you’ve only recently put on weight. Either way, you may have developed a tendency to apologize for your body. In the past, I have apologized to partners for gaining weight, or for not being focused on weight loss. I’ve apologized for having lipedema. I’ve even apo...See full list on dame.comMissionary (but not your grandmother’s missionary) “I’ve always remained flexible because I danced growing up,” Bedford says. “Legs pushed to my head is great if he wants to go deeper and hit everything. One leg down with one up works well with him on top, too. Or legs around his waist or up on his shoulder as he pumps is really pleasurable and all...See full list on dame.comThe best thing about sex is getting in touch with ourselves and our partners. But we can’t do that without plenty of experimentation. It all starts with the firm belief that you are worthy. Experiment to discover what that is. Quit looking at your body as a limitation, and instead delight in everything it c...See full list on dame.comMay 18, 2025 · There’s also a cultural shift needed. We must dismantle the deeply ingrained idea that sexual worth is tied to thinness. Desire is not the exclusive domain of a particular body type.