Marriageandmotherhood are beautiful—but mentally exhausting. The wife and mom load is real, and nobody talks about it enough. #relatable #momrant #wifelife #realtalk #mentalload La carga mental en el matrimonio y la maternidad. Between carrying snacks, carrying a child, and carrying the entire mental load of remembering absolutely everything, I had a realisation, Motherhood is ghetto. But my ex-husband rightly wanted his fair share of time to be a dad, so we landed on 50/50 custody. A few years in, I’ve come around to this arrangement. In fact, I now think everyone else should do it. Married parents: Try living as though you had a 50/50 custody agreement. A husband and wife relationship is above mother and son. It is not a joke but it is truth when someone said that it takes a mother 20 years to teach her son wisdom, but takes only 20 minutes to ruin him! Happily marriedhusbands and wives in female breadwinner families seem to approach work from a more teamwork-oriented perspective. husband helping wife by Teralynn Nordgren. If any of you are fans of J.R. Tolkien, then you are likely familiar with The Hobbit.Since I have experienced how very consuming parenting can be, however, my view of whatitmeansto have an egalitarian marriage has changed.